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April 23, 2016 By Admin

Improving Self-Esteem – An Action Contemplation

Improving Your Self-Esteem – An Action Contemplation

The UCLA Higher Education Research Institute’s surveys and V. Mamgain’s ideas about neoclassical economics of happiness help provide a means to deconstruct improved learning in higher education and also personal happiness in the process. According to the UCLA research surveys, higher education students want more spirituality and personal meaning from their mindful-happiness-self-esteemeducational experiences.  They also desire employment after their education. Combining these experiential and concrete goals is no simple matter. Here I will focus on one major roadblock for many students: their dearth of positive self-esteem in learning and life.

Simply contemplate then answer the questions noted below.  You may wish to use the ancient method of sequential, separate episodes of deep contemplation on each question before answering it.

Read the question then contemplate on it.  Then contemplate on it again, and again, and again for a deeper understanding of meaning and a more useful answer.

After successive contemplations, answer each question.

  • What are the causes and conditions that lead to you feeling happier?
    • List three
  • Take a deeper look at your happy experiences. What is your “felt” personal experience of being happy?
    • List three.
  • Is your personal happiness simply pleasure, or is it more than pleasure?
    • If it is more than pleasure, what is it.
      • List three insights about your happiness.

Some researchers believe that your perception and interception of personal happiness are simply explained as sensory-perceptual functions of your brain and mind.

  • If you think it is more, what is it?
    • List three

Often humans require more mindful contemplation and insightful action to enjoy their lives.  Since happiness that is a natural state is not dangerous, the brain’s self-protective areas (limbic system) tend to ignore it.  So to become a happier person you do need to be more mindful and serious about practicing happiness.

  • So, what are the deeper and personal meanings that happiness satisfies in you as a person?
    • List three
  • What are the personal and deeper values that happiness satisfies in you?
    • List three
  • What are your emotional purposes in experiencing happiness?
    • List three
  • Now that you probably have a better understanding of your personal happiness, what experiments and/or experiences will you engage in to expand your happiness in life?
    • List three

When will you begin?

To help ensure that you practice mindful ways to become happier, write a brief summary of the main changes you intend to make in the near future.

For more information refer to Palmer, P. J. and Zajonc, A. (2010). The Heart of Higher Education: A Call to Action. San Francisco, CA: Jossey Bass, pp. 79-193.

By Anthony R. Quintiliani, PhD., LADC

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November 15, 2015 By Admin

Yogi Deep Meditation on Inner Listening

Practice: Yogi Deep Meditation on Inner Listening

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Carl Jung noted: Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside, awakens.

The Katha Upanishads (800-400 BCE) noted: One path leads outward and the other inward. [The] way inward leads to grace.

The Mind Cave Focus instructs us to close our eyes and expand your third-eye space to the back of the skull, then with your eyes still closed focus on the space in front of you. Then go inside!

Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras (300-200 BCE India) tells us to transform the present moment with your breath (long and even).  Being in this condition may bring you a better future.

Buddha noted – To find silence look within.  Jesus noted – The kingdom of heaven is within you.

  1. These preliminaries prepare us to do inner deep listening using our tongue.  Mindful yogi ancients believed that the tongue was part of the emotional brain.  We will use that principle here. Take a few relaxing breaths; close your eyes; relax your jaw; and, rest your tongue softly on the lower base of the mouth.  If you become bothered by inner/outer noise or sensations, you may wish to say SOM (bija mantra – sohm) to yourself.
  2. Now bring your gentle attention to your heart area. See if you can notice subtle vibrations there.
  3. Use inner vision to experience who sees the self become the self. Who Am I?
  4. Using the power of prana, breathe slowly, deeply, calmly. Notice the subtle feeling of unblocking your inner energy as you become your higher self.
  5.  Patanjali notes that you may wish to use a stone or bead in your hand to anchor you to the earth.
  6. In Pratyahara lead your consciousness inward, and concentrate fully on inner experience. Let go!
  7. Concentrate even more in your inner listening meditation.  Experience oceanic awareness (samadhi).
  8. Using Kumbhala yoga, breathe in deeply to the count of five.  Hold for the count of five, and exhale to the count of six. Notice the subtle change into relaxation of mind, body and spirit. Experience the energy of your mind at peace. Experience the energy of your body at peace. Experience the energy of your spirit at peace.  Find that space between the breaths where you know you are at total inner peace.
  9. Look into your heart chakra, and if you know the symbol for the anahata chakra see it and say YAM to yourself.  Be at perfect peace.
  10. Follow Swami Sa’ Premananda notation: Practice love until you remember that you are love.
  11. Now just rest in yourself, with yourself, in complete peace and safety.

By Anthony R. Quintiliani, PhD., LADC

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