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September 22, 2016 By Admin

Honoring First Nation-Native American Spirited-Wisdom

Honoring First Nation – Native American Spirited-Wisdom

American First Nation or Native American People (according to how they wish to be named) have  a strong spiritual traditions honoring life, the earth and the heavens.  Naming these wise peoples is a problem; out of respect one would call them First Nations, Native American, or a specific tribal name.  Since this is a post, and since my efforts to obtain preferences have ended in  the three “namings” above, I shall use First Nations. I do this out of deep respect.  If my choice mindfulhappiness_first-nationoffends, please accept my deeply felt apology.

In this post I hope to note just a few areas of rich spiritual traditions, especially around the circles of the camp fires. In philosophical terms, First Nation Peoples followed (and follow) certain sacred practices: conservation, preservation, taking/using only what is necessary, giving back/restoring, and forever giving thanks – deep gratitude for what the earth and the heavens have provided. In today’s so-called modern, technological world of greed, “me first,” and sometimes hatred – we all could learn MUCH from these wise-minded and collective practices.

These wise people also practiced special spiritual activities to deepen their understanding of “the way things are.” Such beliefs and practices of energy balancing, sacred healing locations, long-silence, four directions/winds, vision questing, passing the pipe, talking sticks, medicine bags, sweat lodging were all part of their very rich traditions.  WE, so-called dominant white people from Europe almost annihilated them; however, now we seek and deeply value many of their spiritual traditions.  As an old First Nation close friend once told me: “You white people tried to completely destroy us, but now you are quite interested in how our spiritual experiences conserved our spiritual powers and identity – and you WANT to take those traditions also!”  Thank you my friend Dana Pictou for reminding me! Speaking for myself, I want to take nothing BUT I do want to experience what they offer spiritually.  There is no question about WHO owns these traditions. They belong to First Nation peoples.four_directions

In the central areas of British Columbia there are “medicine ways gatherings.” There, certain Tibetan Buddhist and First Nation ceremonies have been integrated to pursue earth healing and world peace. Under the facilitation of Spirit Dance Center for Spiritual Ecology, people gather to participate in ceremony and ritual around open camp fires.  In fire circles they meditate, chant, drum, pass the pipe, have dyadic discussions, and personal consultations – ALL in deep respect for authentic spiritual power, and to better understand “the way things are.”   Others in different parts of  North America participate in body awareness concentration, cleansing breath rituals,  and feather meditations.   Additionally, the sacred fours are active: four directions, four winds, four seasons, and four states of the self. vision-questThis last focus includes our mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional experiences of the self. I find it so, so interesting that First Nation peoples – like the Buddhists of 2,500 years ago – developed a “psychology of self” as part of their forward progressions. In Buddhist beliefs there is no concrete, independently arising, enduring SELF.  It is real in a sense of mind-time, but subject to impermanence, interdependent arising, and essential emptiness. All part of illusion and delusion as we strive to experience sensory pleasure and avoid pain and suffering. These understanding – both First Nation and Buddhist – are quire complex. Mastery of them may reduce personal suffering and increase personal happiness.

So sit quietly with others at  camp fire circle and practice some of these powerful ceremonies. For authenticity, consider finding a First Nation person to lead you through some of these wonderfully powerful rituals. As Joseph Campbell  said “Follow your bliss and don’t be afraid…”

For more information see Cohen, K. – “Bear Hawk” (2003, 2006). Honoring the Medicine: The Essential Guide to Native American Healing. New York: Ballantine Books.

By Anthony R. Quintiliani, PhD., LADC

From the Eleanor R. Liebman Center for Secular Meditation in Monkton, Vermont

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January 6, 2016 By Admin

Brief Kirtan Kriya Meditation and Research

 A Practice To  Help Prevent Alzheimer Disease

Kirtan Kriya meditation is part of the ancient Kundalini yoga tradition.  Current clinical research dealing with prevention of Alzheimer disease supports its use in medical meditation.  As G. Harrison (The Beatles fame) noted: As you move attention beyond yourself, you may find peace of mind is there.  Sanskrit root words for kundalini include meanings such as spiraled or MindfulHappiness-Meditationcoiled, earth (or single cell), bestows perpetual consciousness expressing beginning and end. Sanskrit translations for Kirtan Kriya include such things as sound with movement to balance mind-body emotions/energies to a higher self and true essence. The sounds used come from Sat Nam, which are interpreted as my true essence. Kundalini practices like Kirtan Kriya open up our experience to the inner and outer life forces.  Some refer to this experience as spiritual uplift. Since the Kirtan Kriya meditation requires ONLY 12 minutes to do, there is NO EXCUSE about not having time to practice.  Today neuroscientists suggest that the hands, fingers, and finger tips have much larger representation (the homunculus) within the power and functions of the human brain. Apparently, like so many other ancient meditation and yogic traditions, early practitioners were quite advanced regarding their understanding of mind-body-brain interactions.

Current Research Finding regarding Kirtan Kriya Meditation

According to research (multiple studies) completed by the Alzheimer’s Research and Prevention Foundation, the 12 minute Kirtan Kriya meditation improves memory loss, sleep quality, inflammation (down regulates AlzheimersResearchFoundationinflammatory genes), psychological well-being, spiritual well-being, telomerase level (enzyme that slows cell aging), energy level, and stress response. Furthermore, there were no negative side effects using kirtan kriya meditation; in some people emotional emergence or Kundalini crisis can be experienced as highly uncomfortable.     Instructions appear below.

Kirtan Kriya Meditation in Kundalini Yoga

Preliminary Instructions

  1. You will sit in meditation position (pillow or chair) with your back straight and eyes closed.
  2. You will breathe naturally and remain calm.
  3. You will place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth (84 acupuncture points influencing blood flow, motor-sensory, and occipital parts of the brain).
  4. You will be saying the sounds of: Saa, Taa, Naa, Maa. This will be like gentle singing.
  5. You will be saying these sounds in various ways (silent, out loud, etc.).
  6. As you say the sounds, you will be touching specific finger tips to the tip of your thumb (mudra).
  7. As you say the sounds, you will imagine/visulaize the energy coming into the top of your head, descending into the midbrain, and leaving your head via the mid-forehead (third eye area). This is the important L-Form.
  8. At the end of the 12 minutes meditation, you will inhale very deeply, move arms/hands up over your head, then exhale fully and move arms in a sweeping motion back down.

You may want to review these steps before actually doing the meditation as noted below.

Operational Instructions for Kirtan Kriya Meditation

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1) Sit with your back straight and your eyes closed.

2) Breathe naturally without manipulation of the breath.

3) Gently place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, and keep it there.

4) Bring your visual imagery to “see” the L-Form.

5) For two minutes say out loud  Saa, Taa, Naa, Maa with these formats. Touch tip of thumb with the tip of the index finger for Saa; touch thumb tip with middle finger tip for Taa; touch thumb tip with ring finger tip for Naa; and, touch thumb tip with small finger tip for Maa. Remember to visualize energy flow via the L-Form.

6) Repeat the same process for two minutes (sounds and touching thumb tip with finger tips), for but this time whisper the four sounds.  Visualize the L-Form.

7)  Repeat the same process for four minutes as you touch thumb tip with finger tips, but this time say the four sounds silently to yourself. Remember the L-Form.

8) Repeat for two minutes whispering the four sounds while touching finger tips with thumb tip. Use the L-Form.

9) Repeat for two minutes out loud, including the same hand mudra steps while visualizing the L-Form.

10) Inhale very deeply and raise your hands/arms over your head.

11) Exhale fully and with a sweeping motion move hands/arms back down.

12) Simply sit quietly for about one minute.  Reflect on your experience.

For more information refer to Dharma Singh Khalsa (2014).  A White Paper: Yoga and Medical Meditation as Alzheimer’s Prevention Medicine. Tucson, AZ: Alzheimer’s Research and Prevention Foundation.

By Anthony R. Quintiliani, PhD., LADC

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March 23, 2015 By Admin

Spirituality:

A Dark Night with Saint John of the Cross

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The writings of Saint John of the Cross offer a special viewpoint about the suffering of souls, suffering souls on their way to unity with the divine.  What follows stands in contrast to the Buddha’s views in The Dhammapada about ultimate happiness without any form of union with the divine.  The Dark Night of the Soul may be viewed as a closure on the Christian path to loving unity with the creator.  Like the Confessions of Saint Augustine and some of the writing of Saint Francis of Assisi, one repents for earlier sins of unwholesome living and erroneous spiritual beliefs.  Here, I am not presenting a magnificent account of the Dark Nights; rather, I am touching upon the common themes required to make spiritual breakthroughs into stronger spiritual experience. In the case of the Dark Night we experience intense suffering leading to final unification – loving unification followed by great happiness “in the happy night.” (p. 106)  Here the nights serve as metaphors for spiritual changes.  Each night is a deeper, highly personal process on The Way to pure love of god.  In the nights, Saint John of the Cross is in deepening contemplation (meditation and concentration) on the proper relationship with the divine.  He is seeking a loving unity, a loving connection in the light.  It appears that Saint John is seeking the “divine union of perfect…love” so that his “soul transformed through love…” (pp.8-9)  His desire for and attachment to this mystical experience is at the core of his struggle and suffering. Let us begin with the temporal metaphor of the dark nights.

In the First Night the soul experiences purgation and purification Mindful-Happiness-00004related to sensual experiences. The sensory pleasures (great imperfections) require removal from the deeper spiritual self.  The “depravities of the senses” are so powerful that they require divine intervention. This night refers to a beginner’s path to unification with the divine; this is one who “meditates on the spiritual road” with enough skill that it is a “spiritual night of infused contemplation” (p. 9).  It is interesting that in Buddhism, one’s attachment to sensual pleasures is also noted as something to change for the better over time.

In the Second Night we experience the spiritual part of the soul.  Spiritual contemplation moves deeper and deeper.  The “spiritual purgation of dark contemplation” occurs only after difficult and demanding looking inward.  One is not happy with what one sees: Saint John is required to use “great insight and discernment” to overcome the “lukewarmness of his spirit.” (p. 9)  He must confront and disavow anything that relates to unwholesomeness and unworthiness.  Again, like in Buddhism, one works very hard to overcome unwholesomeness in life.

In the Third Night we observe and experience the actions of the soul.  In this “black darkness”  (p.11) we discover even more that needs to be dealt with prior to any divine connection.  By its action,Mindful-Happiness-00005 the soul must free itself from the world of evil.  This is a painful process to endure. Deeper and deeper contemplation is required.  Here is appears that suffering is the path to liberation.

In the Fourth Night the “affliction is more peaceful” at last. (p. 10)  This is a night of passivity of the soul – just being in deeper contemplation on unwholesomeness and unworthiness yet with a strengthening desire for unity with the divine.  If one is willing to passively accept this deep suffering for the ultimate union, it may Mindful-Happiness-00002show the strength of spiritual conviction and will.   It may demonstrate great belief in and dedication to this spiritual path. Then IT happens!  “in peace and quietness” he ascents to the “transforming union.” (p. 10).  The soul has freed itself from the world of evil; it enters a “brighter and intenser light.”   This “enfolds the soul in the splendors of glory”  (pp. 10-11) “Oh, happy chance” to be freed. (p. 16)  Saint John continued his spiritual journey in “the happy night…without light or guide, save that which burned in my heart.” (p. 106) There is an experience of perfect love in “the happy night.” (p. 106)  He has been successful in experiencing perfect union with the love of the divine.

For more information refer to: Peers, E. A. (Ed.). (1959). Saint John of the Cross-Dark Night of the Soul.  New York: Newman Press/Image Books, pp. 8-16 and 106.

By Anthony R. Quintiliani, PhD., LADC

From the Eleanor R. Liebman Center for Secular Meditation in Monkton, VermontChiYinYang_EleanorRLiebmanCenter

Author of Mindful Happiness

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